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Eugene Howard Lindsey posted a condolence
Thursday, January 11, 2018
Today, I learned of Ms. B's passing. My heart was sadden and also glad that she lived a long life. Many people do not know of her long reaching affect into other people's life and successes. My two sisters and I have been influenced greatly by this woman. In my family alone, a teacher, a doctor and an engineer. I also know that in my graduating class alone, there were more than 60 of us who became engineers, doctors and teachers. So Ms. B's impact was just not on the 60 of us, but those who benefited from our lives as well. Rest well my beloved Ms. B.
Howard Lindsey
NHS - Class of 1970
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Robert Jesinger posted a condolence
Sunday, October 23, 2016
Mrs. Pender was such a positive influence during my years at Northern High School. I graduated in 1986.... and I have thought about her whenever I think about my high school years. She truly was a wonderful person and someone who touched so many I am sure....
Robert Jesinger
NHS Class of '86
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arnold pender posted a condolence
Sunday, September 11, 2016
For any of you who might go back and read these again like I do, your very own comments, I want to say thank you. You, her children were her life for so many years. It not only made you good people, it made her a better person as well. It jas been over six months; seems more like six year and I miss her every day. Any of you who attended her memorial service heard how from your comments how she enriched your lives. Yes, she was a beacon and the light on the Hill that affectred so many lives and mine the most of all. Thank you
Arnold
09/11/16
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Mary P. Smith posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 9, 2016
As a student at Northern High School, I have such fond memories of Miss Bordeaux (as we knew her then). She was always there for each of us and never made us feel that it was just her job to talk to us. She was sincere, warm, and welcoming when we knocked on her door.
Mary Perry Smith
Class of '62
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Wanda Riddle Guthrie posted a condolence
Monday, February 29, 2016
Wonderful lady, see wasn't even my councillor at the time, (she was assigned to seniors) but she cared about everyone and took the time for me (a freshman) almost like a second mom. It meant so much, we know there is a place in Heaven for her!
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Susan Belk Taylor posted a condolence
Saturday, February 27, 2016
I was a senior at Northern High School when Jean Bordeaux worked there as a guidance counselor. Like other seniors at Northern in 1964, I was the first in my family to go to college and navigating the process was overwhelming to me. I spent hours in her office discussing various options, changing my mind on a weekly basis, and searching for the perfect answer about what to do with my life. Her door was always open to me and she listened with unbelievable patience and unconditional acceptance. Somehow, when I was in her presence, she always made me feel that I was the only student she had on her roster.
Years later, when I followed her example, and became a high school guidance counselor, I could not have had a better role model. As did she, I loved my job, and I always attempted to follow the example she had set for me. I lived outside of North Carolina for many years and only recently moved back to the area. I deeply regret that I did not contact her and tell her face-to-face how much she meant to me.
Even though she is no longer among us, I am still learning from her. Her final lesson to me is to never postpone telling others how much they mean to you and how grateful you are for their presence in your life. I hope that somehow even now she might hear my words of profound gratitude and appreciation.
Susan Belk Taylor
Northern High Class of 1964
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rick biberstein posted a condolence
Saturday, February 27, 2016
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Jean was one of the nicest people I have ever known. She was exceptionally sweet as well as smart as a whip. Her loss must be difficult, but you have memories as a legacy to provide comfort in this trying time. We send our most sincere condolences.
Rick and Carolyn Biberstein
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Tom McCants - NHS '62 posted a condolence
Friday, February 26, 2016
I remember "Miss Bordeaux" with warm and fond memories. She always had a smile and was a wonderful help and support. A friendly assist whenever we needed it, and a major help when it came to determining what we would do "after" Northern.
Tom McCants - NHS '62
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Donna Sauls Hales posted a condolence
Friday, February 26, 2016
She was a kind and generous lady who always had time for any of the students at Northern High. She will be greatly missed our condolences to the family and friends NHS graduate 1964
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Judy Parrish Herndon posted a condolence
Friday, February 26, 2016
I was always glad to see you at the UNC Women's Basketball games. You were always so gracious when I saw you and were always glad to see me and any grandchild I had with me. I have missed seeing you and Mr. Pender this year. Knew you must not have been well.
My children have a hard time thinking about you being the guidance counselor for me, Billy and the three of them. You have impacted so many lives in a good way. Thanks for being who you were.
Judy Parrish Herndon Class of 1964
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Patricia Deffenbaugh posted a condolence
Thursday, February 25, 2016
Miss Bordeaux is the reason I went to ECU! She was a wonderful person! My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I was at Northern 1971-1973.
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Mary Zastrow Martin posted a condolence
Thursday, February 25, 2016
I remember "Miss Bordeaux" (Mrs. Pender) in the Northern High School guidance office during my junior and senior years from 1971-1973. She was a lovely, charming woman who always had a smile and was quite helpful as I plotted my collegiate path and future. Prayers for all the family and friends who grieve her passing. Until we meet again one day.....
Mary Zastrow Martin
NHS Class of 1973
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Ramona posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
Mrs Pender, I always adored visiting you in your office . You always had a smile for me and encouragement. Because of you, and your encouragement I applied to college finished my undergrad then grad degree. You made me believe I could do it. Thank you. Thank you. I am so glad I came back and thanked you. :two_hearts::two_hearts: Ramona NHS76
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Beth Johnson lit a candle
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
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You always had a smile for all of "your children". You were so kind and helpful and made sure we knew you were there for us.
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kelly amato posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
I worked in the guidance office during my elective my senior year. I have red hair and wore it in a short curly perm. Every time I came in Mrs. Pender would sing, "tomorrow, tomorro, I love ya tomorrow!" She was that beacon of love, encouragement, and acceptance to all the students. I am so fortunate to have known her.
Kelly Kluttz Amato, NHS class of 1979
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Jeanine Craig lit a candle
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
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Miss Bordeaux was such a wonderful lady, and always so very friendly. She was a beacon to the students of Northern High School. She always had a smile and a kind word. God Bless you Miss Bordeaux. She was not married when I was a student at NHS.
Jeanine Roberts Craig
NHS Class of 1971
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Brenda Cole posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
What an influence she was on so many students at Northern High School. Her guidance changed so many lives. I look forward to seeing her smiling face everyday. She helped me make one of the biggest decisions of my life and I am eternally grateful.
Brenda Dennis - class of '65
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Beth Oliver posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
A wonderful lady. Remember her smiles at Northern. She changed so many lives.
Beth Oliver. Class of 71
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Jim Hill posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
What a fine lady. I had the joy of receiving guidance and support from her during my NHS years. May God be with the family.
Jim Hill
NHS 1969
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Kent Fletcher posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
I first met Miss Bordeaux as a ninth grade freshman at Northern High. She, more than any other made the transition from grammar school to high school less traumatic for me. In the past 53 years I have never forgotten her perpetual smile, her beauty, her humor and her obvious care for the students. When she was around all was well. Like most of the others at Northern I just loved her. Her life here on earth surely touched and helped so many and certainly made a difference. My sincere sympathy to her family and friends and all of the students who knew and loved her. God Bless
Kent Fletcher
NHS class of 1967
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Tina Holland Smallwood posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
I worked in the guidance office with Miss Jean from 1974-1977. She was such a caring lady. All the students loved her . Jean was so much fun and always had a smile on her face. She will be missed by many, RIP Mrs Pender
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Ron & Peggy Stevens posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
We were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Ms Bordeaux. Many of us had the pleasure of getting to know her and rely on her wonderful guidance while at NHS. Never was there a time that she didn't give you her undivided attention. We send our deepest sympathy and our prayers to her entire family.
Ron and Peggy (Foley) Stevens
NHS Class of '66 & '67
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Deborah Lashley posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Mrs. Bordeaux was a wonderful woman and guidance counselor. She was very eager to help me during my time as a student at NHS. I always felt comfortable talking with her and she was always smiling. God bless. Prayers for her family and friends.
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Janice Long posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
What a wonderful person and leader to so many young people. I was fortunate to have her as a teacher, counselor, and colleague ,when I taught at Northern. Always ready with a smile and encouraging word! She will be missed!
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Gail Peeler Greer posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
As a student at Northern I got to know Ms Bordeaux and was lucky enough to help her with office work. She was a gracious and kind lady and counselor.
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Michael Hudzinski posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Jean was my guidance counselor at NHS from 1962-1966. Later in life, we used to share laughs and old stories when she would come and visit at the Streets at Southpoint Mall where I worked as a maintenance mechanic. I would see her every few weeks when she came out to the mall shopping. She was always cheerful, and eager to hear about her older students and what they are up to these days. Heaven has a good one now. She will certainly be missed.
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Harry Clark posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
She was a beacon of light to all students at Northern High School. I will never forget her positive and reassuring appproach to all of us while we were trying to figure out where we were going to end up in this world. May God bless this amazing woman and cradle her in his loving arms.
Harry Clark
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Peter Goswick posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
It is very sad to learn of the passing of "Ms. Bordeaux" (as all of us that knew her at NHS). She was a wonderful person and one of the best friends any NHS student could have. She was a real lady in every sense of the word. I know she has a special place in heaven.
Peter C. Goswick
NHS Class of 1966
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Jane O'Brien posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
How wonderful to see that beautiful face again, however, now it is lighting up heaven. Being a 1964 graduate of Northern High School I have wonderful memories. Not only was she a beautiful person outwardly, she was even more beautiful inside. May God wrap His loving arms around her family and give them peace.
Jane Crabtree O'Brien
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Alfred and Bonnie Webster posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
We are so sorry to hear of her passing. Not only was she my guidance counselor at Northern, she and Arnold were our neighbors here in Surf City. We missed them when they sold their place a couple of years ago.
The family has our deepest sympathy.
Alfred and Bonnie Webster
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Donna Hales posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Well…we all know there is a wonderful angel in Heaven now. You guided so many of us at Northern High School with a kind word and an eagle eye. It was wonderful to have your continued friendship through all the years. I'm going to miss seeing you at the UNC events; it was always so nice to see you and Arnold and receive a warm hug. I'm sure you will find some needy souls in Heaven to take care of; we were all YOUR children…till we meet again!
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Becky Farlow Dalton posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
She was a dear, sweet lady....and always had a smile on her face. Thank you, Mrs. Pender, for all you did to guide and form young minds.
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Frank Browning posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Mrs Pender , was a sweet lady and worked with my Mom during her time at Northern High School. May God be with you during this time.
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Amy Andrews Hoogervorst posted a condolence
Monday, February 22, 2016
I will miss this wonderful lady. Mrs. Pender brought joy to my years as a student at Northern High. When my family joined University UMC eight years ago, I was thrilled to see her in the congregation. I went up after church and re-introduced myself, and she said, "Honey, I know who you are. You're one of my children!" I think she remembered every one of us. We'd talk about NHS, and the Tar Heels, every time we saw each other. She was a joy to be around. Praying for peace and comfort for her family and friends.
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