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Memorial Service
NOV 2. 03:30 PM
Duke Chapel
401 Chapel Dr.
Durham, NC, US
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Carolyn Torkelson posted a condolence
Thursday, December 15, 2016
I am a very old friend of Bruce from the days when he played with the "Church keys" in Warren, Minnesota at our homecoming dance. I had always hoped to reconnect with him someday just to let him know how important he was in my life. All my prayers go out to your family.
Warmly, Carolyn Torkelson MD
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Lisa Hartman posted a condolence
Monday, November 7, 2016
So sad, the hear of Dr. Kihlstrom's passing. I worked with him at Duke Regional Hospital for many years before seeing him as a patient. He was well respected and had a kind bedside manner. He will not be forgotten. Prayers for his family as they deal with this loss. May you rest in peace Dr. Kihlstrom.
~Lisa Hartman
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Joe Minchew posted a condolence
Sunday, November 6, 2016
It was great sadness that I learned of Bruce's passing. He was such a wonderful persona and physician. I had the honor and pleasure of having been his colleague at Duke Regional and felt fortunate to come to consider him a friend as I had a chance to get to know him outside of work. He touched so many lives in a positive way not only as a surgeon but also as a person. I was touched by the sincere celebration of his live at the memorial service. He apparently touched folks all over the area as his name was submitted to be honored on All Saints Day at my church, University United Methodist Church in Chapel Hill. He will truly be missed.
Joe T. Minchew, MD
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Marie Szalanski posted a condolence
Sunday, November 6, 2016
What a wonderful man, he truly will be missed, not only by those he treated, but for so many of us that had the privilege of working with him. As a new nurse, he was a great teacher, so knowledgeable, he never hesitated to share all he knew (nor make you feel dumb when asking questions!). He was one of the reasons I have a love for Neuro pts! I recall a time he nearly made one of my preceptee cry because a pt. was crashing (ok maybe she shed a few tears) but after the pt. stabilized he asked if we were coming to listen to the "jam session" at the bar! He showed us that there is a time and place for all things. Not all work, Not all play-balance is key. I was sad when he left the Reg., but glad he was able to continue spreading his knowledge and help others. Not many Drs. like you left to guide us. You were definitely a class act Dr. K and I look forward to hearing the jam sessions when we meet again. R.I.P
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Brenda Frans posted a condolence
Friday, November 4, 2016
I knew Dr Khilstrom many years ago when I was a drive thru teller for First Union bank and I always knew he was a special person but it wasn't till 2002 when I was a patient of his and he did back surgery on me for 3 Ruptured Dics that I found out how special of a doctor he was so in 2004 when I was diagnosed with a Benign Brain Tumor once again I had him as my surgeon and I can't say enough how wonderful and caring he was. He followed me for many years after that surgery with yearly MRI's and I was heartbroken when he left and went to the VA and I could no longer see him. I know he had a lot of patients but he had a way of making you feel like you were his only patient every time I saw him. He will be greatly missed!
Brenda Frans
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Earl Dalton posted a condolence
Friday, November 4, 2016
I am so saddened by the loss of this wonderful surgeon and friend. His talent was beyond measure and he always made me laugh and treated me with the utmost respect as a nurse. I'm sure God was the first to shed a tear at his passing... good bye old friend until we meet again.... " If love could have saved him, he would have lived forever"
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Todd Wood posted a condolence
Friday, November 4, 2016
So sorry to hear about Dr.Kihlstrom, He was a fine surgeon and and caring Dr. Several times I brought both my children to him for concussions they received playing sports in high school, he never charged me any money. Along with Dr. Steve Wilson there aren't many Dr's like him anymore. God's speed to the family..
Co- worker at Durham Regional
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Dr Gene and Noelle Granger posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
Noelle and I send our condolences . I have known Bruce as a colleague, friend and consummate doctor. I never worried about patients I sent to Bruce. One of those was Noelle. Since she taught anatomy at UNC she and Bruce had fun discussing the anatomy of the cervical fusion he was to perform. When she awoke she was pain free for the first time in many months. If anyone could enjoy surgery Bruce made it possible.
Our community of physicians was made better by having Bruce among us.
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David Frost posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
Every patient I treat is in part treated by Bruce. He not only taught me how to care for patients but also how to care about people. The world lost a great surgeon, mentor, and friend. Be with God Bruce. I sure he has room and time in his OR for your cases!
David Frost
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Melissa Zimmerman lit a candle
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
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I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bruce. Thinking of the entire Kihlstrom family during this time. Love, Melissa & Joel Zimmerman
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Lynne Sposito posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
Dear Pam and Family,
It breaks my heart that you have had such a tremendous loss. Bruce truly was one of the kindest, funniest, loving men I have ever met. I saw him shortly after his surgery and he sat and talked with me after his PT. I told him how sorry I was and how much I hated this for him and, per Bruce, he comforted me saying, "I really can't complain. I know what is going to happen but I have had a really great life. I have Pam and really great kids, I have lived long enough to see them through school and for the most part settled, I have seen grandchildren grow and I have enjoyed music and laughter. I really can't complain." He went on to say there were a few bucket list things he wanted to do quickly and for the most part he did them. He loved going to South Bend, to Notre Dame, to watch Cody play soccer! He was such an example for the rest of us and told me on more than one occasion how proud he was of Julie and Mike and the fine, engaged and caring children they had brought into the world. A world much better, not only for the skills he brought as a surgeon but for the family he leaves to carry on his legacy of love, kindness and concern. May God's hand touch you and comfort you. Dick and Lynne Sposito
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gary pellom posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
Over twenty years ago I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. I could have gone anywhere in the world for treatment, but only one thought entered my mind...I'm going to see Bruce and get this damn thing cut out. I did and he did and I am alive and well today because of him. I thank him every day. God Bless you and the good you have done.
Gary Pellom
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Tanyanita Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
He taught me so much in room #1 I will never forget you my your etenal days be blessed in heaven as it was on earth.
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Dr. K Love you!
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Tanyanita Smith lit a candle
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Ruby Bailey lit a candle
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Ruby Bailey posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Tessamma Kochikunnel lit a candle
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Stella Lobo lit a candle
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Dr. Kihlstrom was my jovial surgeon who I enjoyed working with when I came to live in the United States 10 years ago. He always like to sing for me his favorite song in the operating room and asked me to sing for him in Indian language. He learned many Indian words and his favorite were numbers in Hindi language. He would memorize all the numbers and words and use them to communicate during surgery. I enjoyed working with him and I will miss him very much!
Hearty Condolences to his beloved family. May the Lord give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.
Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord, May the perpetual light shine upon him , may his soul rest in peace, Amen.
Stella Lobo
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Carlene Gales lit a candle
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
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Laura Helms Reece posted a condolence
Monday, October 31, 2016
In junior high and high school I danced with Laura and Julie. In college, Laura and I were friends. I am thinking of you all right now. I have no words to say how sorry I am to hear of your loss.
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Linda Barnett lit a candle
Monday, October 31, 2016
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Harriet Davis lit a candle
Monday, October 31, 2016
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My thoughts and prayers to his family. I always enjoyed working with him @ DRH.
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Arnitha Patterson lit a candle
Monday, October 31, 2016
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So sorry for you all's loss. Dr. Kihlstrom was a wonderful person. He will most certainly be missed. I worked with him for many years at DRH. When I left DRH to start work at the VA, I felt a void. Then years later he began to practice at the VA. I asked him, "Did you follow me over here?" He just laughed and said you know it girl. He was a wonderful teacher and loved taking care of his patients. May comfort and peace belong to the family in this time of sorrow.
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Becky Brogden posted a condolence
Saturday, October 29, 2016
So sorry to hear of Dr. Kihlstroms passing. Worked with him at DRH for many years, after retiring visited with his Mom for some time. Seeing him away from the hospital I saw how he cared for his Mom and other family.
Pam and family you will certainly be in my prayers.
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Becky Brogden lit a candle
Saturday, October 29, 2016
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Jennifer Barker lit a candle
Friday, October 28, 2016
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Jennifer Barker posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
The entire Barker family is deeply saddened to hear of Bruce's passing. Our thoughts & prayers for peace & love are sent to you during this difficult time. Bless you all. :pray::pray::pray::latin_cross:️:latin_cross:️:latin_cross:️ ~Beverly, Jennifer, Jason, Brian, Cheryl, Sydney, & William Watkins Barker
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Linda R. Barnett posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
Pam and Family, my heart was saddened when I heard about the passing of Dr. Kihlstrom. I pray that God will comfort and strengthen you all.
Dr. K. or Dr. Brucie is what I called him was an excellent neurosurgeon, who loved to share his knowledge and teachings with the perioperative team. He loved caring for his patients and providing them with the best of care. I have enjoyed working with him for many years and always tried to stay ahead of him when circulating or scrubbing in his room, to provide efficiency, and help move his day along. He loved telling stories about his family, especially his grandchildren, and he loved to sing. I remember many times joining in singing with him and this really made our day. What a wonderful voice he had and he shared many stories with recording artist that he had met and sang with. I really enjoyed him inviting me to come and sing with he and his band at the Tavern, for which I accepted the invitations and had a blast of a time.
I know that he loved life, loved to travel, and loved his family. I will remember all of the times that I have worked with him and really him missed when he left DRH to go to the VA Hospital.
Rest in Peace Dr. K for great is your reward in Heaven.
Linda R. Barnett
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Brenda Harrison posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
The first thing that comes to mind when I think of Dr. Kihlstrom is his wonderful sense of humor. He always had a way to make you smile and there were many days when he shared the gift of laughter and humor with us. He was a gifted surgeon and was admired by the staff at the DVAMC. He will be missed greatly. Wishing sincere condolences to his family during their time of grief.
Brenda Harrison
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Steve posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
When I tell people that Dr. Kihlstrom was a phenomenal mentor, they immediately reflect on how great of a physician and educator he was within the hospital and operating room. I cherish those moments I shared with him there but I am even more thankful for everything he taught me about family and being a great person to everyone you meet. His love for life, his wife, his children, and his extended family was always on display and I will dearly miss hearing him speak about those things. I want to say thank you to his family for all their kindness and offer my heartfelt condolences during this tough time.
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Cynthia Lunceford lit a candle
Friday, October 28, 2016
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Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Dr. Kihlstrom. He was my husband's neurosurgeon at Durham Regional and I still remember to this day how nervous I was waiting for word and the kindness he showed when he came out to speak with me after the surgery. I know he will be missed.
Sincerely,
Eli & Cynthia Lunceford
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Danita Patrick-Lumpkin posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
Dr. Kihlstrom, was one of a kind, he always knew what to say to make my day better. I will miss him dearly. I'm glad I got to work with him. I Love you Dr. K. RIP
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Phillip & Amy Howard posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
So sorry to hear of Dr. Kihlstrom's passing. My husband and I worked with him at the VA for many years, and he was a truly wonderful person. He is greatly missed...
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Alan & Anne Pettigrew Scotland posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
Lovely to meet Bruce and his family at the wedding of our nephew Caleb and Whitney; memories of Bruce singing with the band our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
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Alan & Anne Pettigrew Scotland posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2016
Lovely to meet Bruce and his family at the wedding of our nephew Caleb and Whitney; memories of Bruce singing with the band our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
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Trisha Peterson posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Bruce was a wonderful, loving guy! I have fond memories of "the motorhome", neighborhood get-togethers and the many fun times on Derby Lane. He was one of the most humble people that I have ever known and one of the most giving. My thoughts and prayers are with the Kihlstrom family. Sending hugs from Texas.
Trisha Tucker Peterson
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david brinkman posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Sorry to hear about Bruce's passing. What a great guy! He was always welcomed to see us when the Ohio Brinkmans showed up. Really enjoyed spending time last fall at Codys game. will surely be missed. Dave Brinkman Family
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Dreams From the Heart Bouquet was purchased for the family of Dr. Bruce L. Kihlstrom.
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Carolyn Evans posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
I want to say that I worked with Dr. Kilhstrom for 28 years during my years at DRGH. He was one of the nicest people to work. with, So even tempered and good. My complete sympathy to his family. I know he will be missed. RIP Dr. K. Carolyn Evans
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Kim Herndon lit a candle
Thursday, October 27, 2016
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I was your nurse nearly 20 years and we had our moments but I have to say I will never forget you or yours. also working with Pam really gave me some insight. I will hold a special place in my heart for the whole Kihlstrom family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know how hard this is but stay strong. He will be missed and remembered always by his friends,family and patients.
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Chris Holder posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
I've worked with Whitney for years, and I'm very sorry for the family's loss. I'm thinking of you all.
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Debra Colpitts posted a condolence
Thursday, October 27, 2016
Your deepest thoughts and prayers are with this wonderful family. We thought very highly of Bruce. Love the Gary, Deb, Rachael and Michael COLPITTS.
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Deana R Peaks posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
I was thankful to have known Dr. Bruce Kihlstrom. He was an excellent doctor to me and my parents whom we all had back surgery by him. Not only was he our doctor , we considered him our friend. He once told my mom, He was my brother from another mother. She got the biggest kick out of that and when she had the opportunity, she was out seeking more patients for him. Thank you for sharing him with us. Sincerely, you will be in our prayers. Deana Wilson Peaks.Rn Durham Regional Hospital 1979-2005.
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Betsy Grunch posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
Dr. K - you were the best mentor and teacher. I was one of the lucky ones that got to work with you at both the Reg and at the VA. You taught me many things as a surgeon, and as a person. I will miss you forever. Love, Betsy
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Linda Hill Mercer posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
My condolences to the family. Dr. Kilhstrom was a wonderful Surgeon. He treated the Nurses with respect. He could always come up with a smile, no matter how long the day or how tired he was. I enjoyed working for him at Durham Regional.
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Sandra Bragan lit a candle
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
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I was shocked to hear of Dr. Kihlstrom's passing! He saved my life in 2008 when anyone else would have given up! My thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of need......and he is in heaven looking down on each and every patient that he ever had! God speed Dr. Kihlstrom and rest in peace my dear friend!
Sandra Bragan
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CherRhonda Caldwell posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
Dr. Kihlstrom was a wonderful neurosurgeon and I had the honor and privilege to work along beside him at DRH. He will be truly missed by the many lives he touched working in the OR. He cared very deeply for his patients and staff and he was truly a remarkable man. I want to give my sincerest condolences to the family and know that a great man have touched so many lives throughout his career. Rest easy Dr. Kihlstrom and you will be truly missed.
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Ben Hannam posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
We were very sad to learn of Bruce's passing and our heart goes out to your family and friends. Being new to the neighborhood we didn't get to know Bruce as well as we would have liked, but we enjoyed talking with him when we ran into him. He was always very gracious and seemed to genuinely enjoy talking with my daughter Ruby.
Please let us know if there's anything you need and accept our condolences.
—Ben Hannam & Julie Schulman
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ELLIS Haake posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
My deepest sympathies to Pam and to the rest of their family. Bruce was proud of all the children and grandchildren, as he told me many times in phone calls. I was privileged to have stood by him on stage for almost four years during our performances with the Churchkeys during the '60's. The only differences of opinions we ever had were friendly ones. A great guy to play music with, and to hang out with as a real friend. He gave me quite a bit of neurological advice (I'm in ND), and told me that my MRI's were the only ones of all his patients that were on his home PC. I take that as quite an honor from a man of his stature who has helped so many others in his practice. We had a great visit at Cass Lake a few years ago, and were looking forward to another after the new motor-coach was ready, but sadly, that was not to be. I'll be keeping the whole family in my thoughts and prayers to get through these tough times.
Ellis Haake
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Brad Caldwell posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
I don't remember it, because I was only months old. But I'm 36 now, married 9+ years with two beautiful boys, living a life that most infants with hydrocephalus never get to experience. No blindness. No auditory disabilities. No disabilities at all, aside from a shunt behind my right ear, that's been there since the day Dr. Kihlstrom saved my life.
I just can't offer enough thanks. There just isn't enough gratitude for the man that allowed me the chance to be the man, son, brother, husband, father, friend, & pastor that I try to be every day.
Sincere prayers for his wife & family.
Sincerely & gratefully,
Brad Caldwell
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Judy Mullins lit a candle
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
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I was referred to Dr. Kihlstrom for some back problems I was having. I found him very easy to talk with and share my concerns. We finally decided on surgery as the only option left for me and had that done in January of 1992. I followed his advice, since I didn't want to have it done again, and have done great since that time. I know when I have overdone it and try to rest. I felt I had the best surgeon there was for my situation and I am so glad I was referred to him instead of someone else. I send my deepest sympathy to his family and friends. May God wrap His arms around you and hold you close during this sad and difficult time.
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Ted Cole posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
I had the esteemed opportunity to work with Dr. Kihlstrom for eight years and I learned so much from him that it would be impossible to quantify in a space this small. I will miss his stories... I will miss playing the guitar with him... I will miss our late night talks at the bar but most of all I will miss him. I truly can't put into words how impactful he was on my life. He will always be remembered for who he was. I hope he is enjoying a glass of scotch and the sound of a good blues riff right. Bruce... I love ya! May you Rest In Peace.
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Brien Pace posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
Bruce was my mentor but most of all he was a Friend and a Father to me. We worked side by side every day I worked at the Durham VA. He welcomed me into his home and his family. He was the most generous man I have ever met.I will miss him every day. Bruce may you rest in Peace my Friend/Father until we meet again. God Bless
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burt mckenzie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
I enjoyed working with and knowing Bruce for many years. He was a unique man, and excellent surgeon who touched the lives of many people. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Burt McKenzie
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Richard Sarratt posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Dr. Khilstrom was a wonderful person and a great friend. I will miss our discussions and Thursday night gigs with the No-Stars. I, and many others, will feel the void his passing leaves immensely. My sincere condolences go out to his family.
Richard Sarratt
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Dennis A Turner posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Dr. Kihlstrom was an excellent partner and friend for years, dedicated to his neurosurgery career and teaching as well as his family. We miss him very much!
Dennis A. Turner
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Patricia Aronin lit a candle
Monday, September 26, 2016
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Bruce was my chief resident in neurosurgery at UNC and my attending when I rotated at Durham county during my chief resident year. I learned so much from him about neurosurgery and life. So sad to learn of his passing. He will be missed by many. Condolences to his family.
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